
Divorce guidance with practical calm.
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Better Divorce Podcast treats divorce as both a legal disruption and a life redesign problem. Paulette Rigo brings guests into plain-spoken conversations about finances, homes, children, emotional clarity, relationship agreements, and the work of starting again.
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About Better Divorce Podcast
Better Divorce Podcast approaches divorce as a full-life disruption rather than a single legal event. The show returns again and again to the same reality: divorce touches money, housing, parenting, identity, relationships, and the practical details of daily survival. Paulette Rigo keeps the tone conversational and candid. Episodes often begin with a common question, such as what happens to the house, how to handle money, or how to know whether a relationship can be repaired. From there, guests help translate big fears into workable steps. The financial conversations are especially concrete, covering budgets, mortgages, leases, retirement accounts, insurance, assets, debts, and the difference between running one household and funding two. The legal language is treated as something to understand, not something to romanticize. Discovery, depositions, interrogatories, mediation, privacy, and legal fees are discussed with a clear preference for avoiding needless conflict where possible. The show also recognizes that divorce is not only about documents. Several episodes turn toward rebuilding: finding purpose, studying personal patterns, designing new agreements, and creating a home that fits post-divorce life. The house is not treated as just property. It is memory, security, sheet rock, logistics, and sometimes an unaffordable emotional anchor. That practical-emotional blend gives the show its shape. It can talk about furniture, coffee makers, retirement accounts, and midlife spark in the same orbit. Guests bring in specialized perspectives, but the conversation stays accessible for listeners who may be overwhelmed. The show does not promise an easy split. It argues for a better-managed one. Its strongest recurring message is that preparation, support, and privacy can reduce damage. The result is a useful companion for people contemplating divorce, surviving the process, or trying to rebuild with more clarity afterward.
Made for: This show is for people contemplating divorce, already in the process, or rebuilding afterward. It especially suits listeners facing questions about money, housing, mediation, children, and emotional recovery.
What sets it apart: Better Divorce Podcast blends divorce coaching, mediation-minded advice, financial realism, and recovery conversations in one place. It is unusually focused on the everyday mechanics of separation, from leases and registries to retirement accounts and new life design.
In their own words
Welcome to The Better Divorce Podcast. Paulette Rigo here to guide you through the storm of divorce into calmer waters.Whether you're contemplating divorce, in the thick of it or rebuilding post-divorce, we've got you covered. Each week, we tackle tough topics, share resilience stories, and offer practical advice to help you navigate with confidence.Remember, you're not alone and a brighter future awaits. Ready to turn a tough time into a time of growth? Then let's get started.
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Based on 6 episodes we listened to · September 2026
Paulette Rigo makes divorce's emotional and financial consequences easier to name, examine, and act on.
Better Divorce Podcast turns the practical mess of separation into direct, conversational interviews. Paulette Rigo brings financial advisors, relationship specialists, and divorce-support organizers into discussions shaped around decisions people actually face: affording two…
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- to price the unromantic parts of living apart, down to utilities and moving costs
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Episodes
- 1
Recap Ep. 112 Bernadette Pannier: When Healing from Divorce at 25 Leads You To A Life Of Priorities, Self-Love and Fulfillment
·52m - 2
Ep. 09 Keri Gwynne and Ryan Finley: Divorce is not the end of your story - There is life and happiness after divorce too.
·34m - 3
Ep. 08 Lee Baucom: Change Begins with Choices and Systems
·36m - 4
Ep. 07 Heike Yates: You Are Not Broken — You Are in Transition
·35m - 5
Ep. 06 Ally Iseman: The Art of Relationship Design - Building Love on Purpose
·51m - 6
Ep. 05 Lori Atwood: Navigating Financial Challenges in Divorce
·44m - 7
Ep. 04 Kathleen Judge: There is So Much Hope! The Power of Involvement in Relationships
·41m - 8
Ep. 03 Sybil Cummin: You’re More Powerful Than You Think for Your Kids
·56m - 9
Ep. 02 Todd Sarner: The Importance of Attachment in Parenting
·43m - 10
Ep. 01 Caryn Gottlieb: Finding Strength After Divorce
·45m - 11
Ep. 20 Kate Cruickshank: From Victim to Thriving - A Journey of Transformation
·57m - 12
Ep. 19 Kirk Stange: The Freedom to Begin Again
·35m - 13
Ep. 18 Dr. Ursula Lentine: Understanding Trauma's Role in Divorce
·43m - 14
Ep. 17 Edith Espinola: Stronger Than You Know - Creating a Beautiful Life After Divorce
·42m - 15
Ep. 16 Bernardo Mendez: Dating In Midlife Can Be A Spiritual Journey, More So Than A Mechanism To "Catch A Partner."
·53m - 16
Ep. 15 Kim Korven: Empowering Families Through Divorce Mediation
·50m - 17
Ep. 13 John Nachlinger: Going to Court to Get Divorced is the Past
·40m - 18
Ep. 11 Patrick Kilbane: Why Would You Start With The End First?
·36m - 19
Ep. 12 Daniel Ryan: The Family Court System is Not a Haven for Harmonious Resolution
·32m - 20
Ep. 10 Cathy Eads: How To Know It's Time To Go?
·41m - 21
Ep. 09 Megan Sherer: Your Relationship With Yourself Is The Most Important One You Will Ever Have
·40m - 22
Ep. 08 Andrea McGinty: Patience and a Positive Attitude Will Lead You to the Relationship You Want
·37m - 23
Recap Ep. 124 Tracy Malone: Divorcing Your Narcissist: You CAN'T make this shit up!
·41m - 24
Ep. 07 Jodie Graham: Awareness of Narrative, Reality, Control and Power
·48m - 25
Ep. 06 Ashley Milus : The Missing Piece To Transforming Grief And Moving Forward After Divorce.
·42m - 26
Ep. 05 Sol Kennedy - Divorce's Impact: Kids Remember How Parents Handled It
·30m - 27
Ep. 04 Jennifer Lee: Empower Your Future - Take Control of Your Finances with the Right Information
·40m - 28
Ep. 03 Johnny Fernandez: Why going through divorce doesn’t have to stop you from having lasting love.
·38m - 29
Ep. 02 Tanya Helfand: Making a better happier life for yourself and your children is possible
·38m - 30
Recap Ep. 178 Lesa Koski: 7 Dilemmas of Divorce
·58m - 31
Recap Ep. 127 Dr. Anissa Reilly: Turning Life's Messes into Messages of Hope- From Violence to Victory!
·33m - 32
Ep. 01 Kate Anthony: The Agony of the Divorce Decision
·49m - 33
Ep. 204 Mikelann Valterra: To believe that they don't have to stay stuck in their financial anxiety and to get clear on what is creating the overwhelm for them in the first place.
·42m - 34
Ep. 203 Donna Bollinger: Your happiness depends on you, not what others say and do
·31m - 35
Recap Ep. 98 Dr. Elizabeth Cohen: How To Regain Your Afterglow After Divorce
·34m - 36
Ep. 202 Brynn Ungerleider: How nannies can be the key to successful co-parenting relationships.
·48m - 37
Ep. 09 Kim Costa: Divorce & Moving: Navigating Life’s Biggest Stressors
·28m - 38
Recap Ep. 126 Michelle Dempsey: Mom's Moving On!
·30m - 39
Recap Ep. 105 Dr. Holly Battey: How to Date After Divorce So Divorce Doesn't Happen Again!
·46m - 40
Ep. 201 Jill Kaufman: How to start divorce in the right way and avoid costly mistakes
·42m - 41
Ep. 200 Nikki Tucker: Walk away from this conversation confident and optimistic about financial life pre and post-divorce
·35m - 42
Recap Ep. 123 Donna Shin: There comes a time in your life when you finally get it! Surviving Narcissistic Abuse and Coming Out The Other Side
·43m - 43
Recap Ep. 120 Amy Sanders: Toxic Relationship Expert Teaches Us How To Know You Are Happy and Create Your Joy List
·33m - 44
Ep. 197 - Sydney Ryker: Stop searching outside of ourselves for happiness and fulfillment.
·51m - 45
Recap Ep. 129 Lora Cheadle: Learn from Life Choreography and FLAUNT method creator as you Recover From Betrayal
·34m - 46
Recap - Ep. 128 Jaimie Sherling: You Do You! Despite all that life throws at you. (Divorce and Cancer included)
·32m - 47
Recap Ep. 133 AJ Grossman Teaches Us How To Leap Into A Better Divorce Experience
·31m - 48
Recap Ep. 134 Attorney and CDFA Lisa Zeiderman let's us in on how to have realistic and successful expectations.
·39m - 49
Recap Ep.91 - Torrey Commisso: The Art of Co-Parenting with a High Conflict Former Spouse
·27m - 50
Recap - Ep. 34 Amber Gregory: It is not about finding peace, it's about being at peace with what we find.
·49m - 51
Recap - Ep. 53 Dorothy Johnson: How to get over your ex NOW!!
·33m - 52
Recap - Ep. 100 Michelle Mitchell: The Brilliant Art of Parallel Parenting in High Conflict Divorce
·47m - 53
Ep. 187 Randall Ray: Helping women coming out of divorce and starting over consider the entrepreneurial path
·44m - 54
Ep. 186 Trevor Justice: People Value You as Much as You Value Yourself.
·51m - 55
Ep. 185 Mom Betch: How mothers can manage divorce wisely
·1h 8m - 56
Ep. 183 Bela Gandhi: Love is possible at ANY age!
·30m - 57
Ep. 182 Brenda Bridges: Remember The Three P's - Purpose, Process Professionals.
·45m - 58
EP. 181 Evan Marc Katz: You don't have to change to find love. You have to change your choice in men
·41m - 59
Ep. 180 Abbe Feder: Not to go through anything hard alone if you don't have to
·36m - 60
Ep. 179 Bob Thompson: Using Persistent Progress & Self Checks Can Change Your World
·37m - 61
Ep. 178 Lesa Koski: 7 Dilemmas of Divorce
·58m - 62
Ep. 177 Hazel Secco: Don't Do Divorce Finances Alone
·42m - 63
Ep. 176 Tiffany Harvey: Not all storms break you; some lead to God's purpose.
·45m - 64
Ep. 144 Top Divorce Mistakes #8
·17m - 65
Ep. 175 Cathy Roberts Eads - Balanced Bliss: The Transformative Trio of Yoga, Meditation, and Daily Self-Care
·1h 4m - 66
Ep. 174 Noor Ali: There's Options for Every Situation, Don't Feel Lost or Discouraged.
·29m - 67
Ep. 173 Erin Jones: There's Life After Divorce, Its Work, A Roller Coaster Ride, An Adventure.
·24m - 68
Ep. 172 Jessica Love: You Are The Creator of Your Reality and You Always Have a Choice
·44m - 69
Ep. 171 Kate Anthony: Your Divorce Survival Guide - Guides Around Should I Stay or Should I Go
·41m - 70
Ep. 170 Navi Bliss: The Love You Need/Want/Desire Has Been Inside You All Along
·41m - 71
Ep. 169 Kathy Casa: Yoga Dynamis Wellness - It's all about the journey.
·52m - 72
Ep. 168 Shaunna Lee: You're never too old and it's never too late to answer the call of your soul
·45m - 73
Ep. 167 Shan Merchant: The importance of understanding the power struggle stage in relationships and its potential for profound growth and transformation
·44m - 74
Ep. 166 Leah Hadley: Overcoming financial abuse is not just a distant hope or dream—it's entirely achievable
·46m - 75
Ep. 165 Cece Shatz: There is light at the end of the tunnel
·35m - 76
Ep. 164 Lori Finlay: That chronic stress is a major contributor to breast disease / cancer
·47m - 77
Ep. 163 Mark Gibson: Digital Forensics is a valuable asset in a divorce not a solution.
·34m - 78
Ep. 162 Beverly Price: The Creation of Divorce Coalition - Shining a light on October: Domestic Violence Awareness Month
·28m - 79
Ep. 161 Victoria Kirilloff: Divorce Analytics: Ignoring Red Flags is Self Sacrificing Behavior and Can Lead to Unintended Demise
·34m - 80
Ep. 160 Tara Magalski: The Only Way Out is Through: Divine Lifestyles
·50m - 81
Ep: 159 The ALL new Better Divorce Podcast
·12m - 82
Ep. 158 Dr. Debi Silber: Healing isn’t just possible, it’s predictable!! (The PBT Institute)
·34m - 83
Ep. 157 Maria Spears: What Does It Take To Find The Right Partner After Divorce?
·41m - 84
Ep. 156 Karen Covy and Paulette Rigo: What It's Like to Litigate Your Divorce for 8 1/2 Years
·52m - 85
Ep. 155 Sandra Estok: Happily Ever Cyber: How To Protect Yourself Against Hackers, Scammers and Cybermonsters
·51m - 86
Ep. 154 Jacquie Capstick: Insightful Ways to overcome complexities: Mitigating adverse impact in high-conflict divorces
·1h 5m - 87
Ep. 153 Lauren Tanksley and Mike Bean of Divorce Sense, LLC join Paulette to discuss what a CDFA does to help create the financial outcome your NEED.
·48m - 88
Ep. 152 Joy Rosenthal: Can An Attorney Teach You How To Land On Your Feet?
·38m - 89
Ep. 151 15 Questions To Ask Yourself Before You Ask For a Divorce!
·25m - 90
Ep. 150 Top Divorce Mistakes #12
·13m - 91
Ep. 149 Paulette and Tierra discuss Just What The MD Ordered After Divorce (A Healing Retreat IN BELIZE)
·33m - 92
Ep. 148 Top Divorce Mistakes #11
·11m - 93
Ep. 147 Top Divorce Mistakes #10
·14m - 94
Ep. 146 Sarah Armstrong: Can a Mom Have A Good Divorce?
·35m - 95
Ep. 145 Top Divorce Mistakes #9
·15m - 96
Ep. 143 Top Divorce Mistakes #7
·20m - 97
Ep. 142 Top Divorce Mistakes #6
·23m - 98
Ep. 141 Top Divorce Mistakes #5
·24m - 99
Ep. 14 Zoey Charif: Realizing That Love Isn’t Luck And Divorce Isn’t Failure.
·40m - 100
Ep. 184 Molly Rubesh: How to have a healthy divorce (letting go of hurt and anger).
Paulette Rico interviews health and wellness coach Molly Rubesh about achieving a healthy divorce by letting go of hurt and anger.
·34m - 101
Ep. 10 Ron Platt: Revolutionizing Divorce Support: The NASDF Approach
Hidden gemPaulette Rigo introduces Ron Platt, CEO of the National Association of Single and Divorced Families, discussing a new organization aimed at reducing stigma and providing support for divorced and single families.
Apr 14, 2026·39m·2 clips - 102
Ep. 09 Kim Costa: Divorce & Moving: Navigating Life’s Biggest Stressors
Hidden gemPaulette Rigo interviews Kim Costa about housing and identity decisions during divorce, including whether to stay, move, renovate, rent, or use nesting.
Mar 26, 2026·28m·2 clips - 103
Ep. 09 Keri Gwynne and Ryan Finley: Divorce is not the end of your story - There is life and happiness after divorce too.
Paulette Rego interviews Keri Gwynne and Ryan Finley about the financial preparation required during divorce, including hidden assets, debt, budgets, and mediation.
Mar 19, 2026·34m·2 clips - 104
Ep. 08 Lee Baucom: Change Begins with Choices and Systems
Hidden gemPaulette Rego interviews Dr.
Mar 11, 2026·36m·2 clips - 105
Ep. 07 Heike Yates: You Are Not Broken — You Are in Transition
Paulette Rego interviews author Heike Yates about finding purpose and spark during the transitional period after divorce.
Mar 2, 2026·35m - 106
Ep. 06 Ally Iseman: The Art of Relationship Design - Building Love on Purpose
Hidden gemAllie Eisman says cheating is “a symptom” and “about dishonesty, about breaking agreements.”
Feb 19, 2026·51m·2 clips - 107
Ep. 05 Lori Atwood: Navigating Financial Challenges in Divorce
Hidden gemPaulette Rigo and Lori Atwood, founder and CEO of Fearless Finance, focus on money in divorce, including cash flow, balance sheets, and the cost of running one household versus two.
Feb 11, 2026·44m·2 clips - 108
Ep. 04 Kathleen Judge: There is So Much Hope! The Power of Involvement in Relationships
Hidden gemKathleen Judge, a financial advisor on Better Divorce Podcast, says her own 17-year marriage and 12 years out of the workforce shaped how she helps women after divorce.
Feb 3, 2026·41m·2 clips - 109
Ep. 03 Sybil Cummin: You’re More Powerful Than You Think for Your Kids
Jan 28, 2026·56m - 110
Ep. 02 Todd Sarner: The Importance of Attachment in Parenting
Jan 22, 2026·43m - 111
Ep. 01 Caryn Gottlieb: Finding Strength After Divorce
Jan 13, 2026·45m - 112
Ep. 20 Kate Cruickshank: From Victim to Thriving - A Journey of Transformation
Nov 14, 2025·57m - 113
Ep. 19 Kirk Stange: The Freedom to Begin Again
Nov 3, 2025·35m - 114
Ep. 18 Dr. Ursula Lentine: Understanding Trauma's Role in Divorce
Aug 21, 2025·43m - 115
Ep. 17 Edith Espinola: Stronger Than You Know - Creating a Beautiful Life After Divorce
Aug 11, 2025·42m - 116
Ep. 16 Bernardo Mendez: Dating In Midlife Can Be A Spiritual Journey, More So Than A Mechanism To "Catch A Partner."
Jul 29, 2025·53m - 117
Ep. 15 Kim Korven: Empowering Families Through Divorce Mediation
Jul 24, 2025·50m - 118
Ep. 14 Zoey Charif: Realizing That Love Isn’t Luck And Divorce Isn’t Failure.
Jul 14, 2025·40m - 119
Ep. 13 John Nachlinger: Going to Court to Get Divorced is the Past
Jul 7, 2025·40m - 120
Ep. 12 Daniel Ryan: The Family Court System is Not a Haven for Harmonious Resolution
Jul 2, 2025·32m - 121
Ep. 11 Patrick Kilbane: Why Would You Start With The End First?
Jul 2, 2025·36m - 122
Ep. 10 Cathy Eads: How To Know It's Time To Go?
Hidden gemCathy Eads discusses her divorce journey and the importance of taking breaks in life and relationships.
Jun 17, 2025·41m·2 clips - 123
Ep. 09 Megan Sherer: Your Relationship With Yourself Is The Most Important One You Will Ever Have
Jun 9, 2025·40m - 124
Ep. 08 Andrea McGinty: Patience and a Positive Attitude Will Lead You to the Relationship You Want
Jun 4, 2025·37m - 125
Ep. 07 Jodie Graham: Awareness of Narrative, Reality, Control and Power
May 19, 2025·48m - 126
Ep. 06 Ashley Milus : The Missing Piece To Transforming Grief And Moving Forward After Divorce.
May 6, 2025·42m - 127
Ep. 05 Sol Kennedy - Divorce's Impact: Kids Remember How Parents Handled It
Apr 21, 2025·30m - 128
Ep. 04 Jennifer Lee: Empower Your Future - Take Control of Your Finances with the Right Information
Mar 27, 2025·40m - 129
Ep. 03 Johnny Fernandez: Why going through divorce doesn’t have to stop you from having lasting love.
Feb 4, 2025·38m - 130
Ep. 02 Tanya Helfand: Making a better happier life for yourself and your children is possible
Jan 28, 2025·38m - 131
Recap Ep. 178 Lesa Koski: 7 Dilemmas of Divorce
Jan 15, 2025·58m - 132
Recap Ep. 127 Dr. Anissa Reilly: Turning Life's Messes into Messages of Hope- From Violence to Victory!
Jan 7, 2025·33m - 133
Ep. 01 Kate Anthony: The Agony of the Divorce Decision
Jan 3, 2025·49m - 134
Ep. 204 Mikelann Valterra: To believe that they don't have to stay stuck in their financial anxiety and to get clear on what is creating the overwhelm for them in the first place.
Dec 25, 2024·42m - 135
Ep. 203 Donna Bollinger: Your happiness depends on you, not what others say and do
Dec 17, 2024·31m - 136
Recap Ep. 98 Dr. Elizabeth Cohen: How To Regain Your Afterglow After Divorce
Dec 10, 2024·34m - 137
Ep. 202 Brynn Ungerleider: How nannies can be the key to successful co-parenting relationships.
Dec 3, 2024·48m - 138
Recap Ep. 112 Bernadette Pannier: When Healing from Divorce at 25 Leads You To A Life Of Priorities, Self-Love and Fulfillment
Nov 26, 2024·52m - 139
Recap Ep. 126 Michelle Dempsey: Mom's Moving On!
Nov 19, 2024·30m - 140
Recap Ep. 105 Dr. Holly Battey: How to Date After Divorce So Divorce Doesn't Happen Again!
Dr.
Nov 12, 2024·46m - 141
Ep. 201 Jill Kaufman: How to start divorce in the right way and avoid costly mistakes
Oct 30, 2024·42m - 142
Ep. 200 Nikki Tucker: Walk away from this conversation confident and optimistic about financial life pre and post-divorce
Oct 23, 2024·35m - 143
Recap Ep. 123 Donna Shin: There comes a time in your life when you finally get it! Surviving Narcissistic Abuse and Coming Out The Other Side
Oct 14, 2024·43m - 144
Recap Ep. 120 Amy Sanders: Toxic Relationship Expert Teaches Us How To Know You Are Happy and Create Your Joy List
Paulette Rico introduces a podcast episode featuring toxic relationship expert Amy Sanders, who teaches listeners how to recognize happiness and create a joy list.
Oct 7, 2024·33m - 145
Ep. 197 - Sydney Ryker: Stop searching outside of ourselves for happiness and fulfillment.
Sep 30, 2024·51m - 146
Recap Ep. 124 Tracy Malone: Divorcing Your Narcissist: You CAN'T make this shit up!
Sep 23, 2024·41m - 147
Recap Ep. 129 Lora Cheadle: Learn from Life Choreography and FLAUNT method creator as you Recover From Betrayal
Sep 17, 2024·34m - 148
Recap - Ep. 128 Jaimie Sherling: You Do You! Despite all that life throws at you. (Divorce and Cancer included)
Sep 9, 2024·32m - 149
Recap Ep. 133 AJ Grossman Teaches Us How To Leap Into A Better Divorce Experience
Paulette Rico introduces the Better Divorce podcast and guest AJ Grossman to discuss improving the divorce experience.
Sep 3, 2024·31m - 150
Recap Ep. 134 Attorney and CDFA Lisa Zeiderman let's us in on how to have realistic and successful expectations.
Aug 27, 2024·39m