ADHD Essentials

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ADHD talk that aims for 10% better, not perfect.

The gist

Brendan Mahan introduces himself as an ADHD professional with more than a decade in the field, and he talks with coaches, authors and peers about friendship, creativity, goals and fatherhood. The tone stays loose and practical, and his sign-off keeps coming back to one modest target: improvement over perfection.

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About ADHD Essentials

ADHD Essentials is a conversational podcast about living with ADHD, hosted by Brendan Mahan. He introduces himself as an ADHD professional with more than a decade in the field, a board member of the Men's ADHD Support Group and the author of Overcoming the Wall of Awful. The talk is relaxed. Words like 'dope' and 'tally ho' sit comfortably beside serious points about burnout, school and feeling rejected. Guests bring much of the material. ADHD coach Bradley Smith II makes the counterintuitive case that fewer options can make a person more creative, and he uses Dr. Seuss as his example. He also names the grief of letting go of the ideas, hobbies and projects an ADHD brain keeps producing, which is more than any one life can hold. Caroline Maguire's conversation about friendship for neurodivergent adults takes up rejection sensitivity, described as the story a person tells when they already feel vulnerable. It also covers the everyday skill of reading the room. With Cate Osborn and Erik Gude, the subject is a book they wrote together, including a list of small ways to ask for help that they labelled, without apology, big and disorganized. Mahan's own family runs through the show. His sons, Nate and Gavin, find loud concerts overwhelming, and he describes how outdoor venues and earplugs became the workaround. In a fatherhood conversation billed as a DadDHD SimulPod, he recalls asking one of his sons what he needed after a slip at school, and hearing that he just needed to see it. The solo episode 'Thoughts on ADHD & Goals for 2026' is franker still. Mahan explains how two goals he set when his sons were born, a black belt in Kempo and a book, were reached eleven years behind schedule. He links the long stall at brown belt to the years when his teaching career ended and he rebuilt himself through ADHD coaching and a second master's in counseling, and he tells it as a round of Storytime with Mr. B. The show also travels. 'ROUGH CUT: ADHD Con 2025 Day 1' is a group debrief recorded at the ADHD Conference. The microphone, which is really Mahan's laptop, passes among friends including Jessica McCabe of the HowToADHD YouTube channel and psychotherapist Inger Shea-Colsey. It is as unpolished as the label promises, and one participant calls the conference a once-a-year benchmark for checking their own growth. Asking for help comes up more than once, from the list in that book to a conference voice admitting how hard it is to accept help and put things down. The sign-off thanks the listener for staying focused all the way through and restates the show's working motto: improvement over perfection, because 10% better is all you need.

Made for: Suits a listener managing ADHD in their own life or their family's who wants practical, good-humoured conversation instead of clinical instruction. It also fits anyone who prefers advice aimed at steady progress over perfection.

What sets it apart: Mahan sets his own life next to the expert advice, from his sons' struggles with loud venues to goals that ran eleven years late. The show has also taken its microphone to an ADHD conference for loose, many-voiced debriefs.

In their own words

In ADHD Essentials, Brendan Mahan, M.Ed., M.S. interviews parents, teachers and experts to get their views on ADHD in childhood, and how it affects families.

Why you'd press play

Brendan Mahan treats a failing essay as a problem to solve; your inner critic could use office hours.

Press play if you want

  • to see a kid's missed work as a skill or resource gap instead of a moral emergency
  • friendship advice that makes room for both people's needs when rejection feels close
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Best episodes of ADHD Essentials

Short reviews from the PlayNext desk, based on the episodes we processed.

Friendship Skills for Neurodivergent Adults with Caroline MaguireApr 13, 2026

A grounded conversation about friendship as practice, mutual accommodation, and the quiet win of showing up.

Friendship comes across here as something people can practice, not a mysterious trait some adults simply have. Caroline McGuire's approach, centered on making friends as a skill for neurodiverse adults, gives the conversation a practical frame as it moves through rejection…

The ADHD Field Guide to Adults with Cate "Catieosaurus" Osborn and Erik GudeApr 9, 2026

A thoughtful conversation about ADHD-friendly reading, clearer communication, and learning to trust one's own words.

Brendan Mahan's conversation with Katie Osborne and Eric Goud treats The ADHD Field Guide for Adults as more than a useful book. It opens into a grounded discussion about reading, communication, and the small but real confidence involved in trusting what one means.

DadDHD SimulPod! ADHD and Fatherhood with Brendan MahanFeb 12, 2026

A fatherhood conversation turns teaching habits into a practical lens for parenting with curiosity.

ADHD Essentials gives this episode to a DadDHD conversation where Brendan Mahan links fatherhood with a teacher's habit of asking what a child is missing before judging the struggle.

How Restrictions Help ADHD and Creativity Thrive with Bradley Smith IIFeb 2, 2026

A thoughtful ADHD conversation about creative limits, grief, and ambitions that can change shape.

Restrictions do not usually feel like an artistic gift, but this episode finds a useful tension in having fewer choices. ADHD coach Bradley Smith and host Brendan Mahan talk through limits as a way an ADHD mind can work with itself, moving from Dr.

ROUGH CUT: ADHD Con 2025 Day 1Nov 18, 2025

A loose ADHD conference debrief finds its value in candid talk about support, community, and accepting help.

The episode begins as a casual ADHD conference debrief, with Brendan Mahan gathering friends around a laptop for takeaways while the event is still underway.

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    ADHD, Boundaries, Overwhelm, and Getting into Action with Julie Kliers

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    ADHD Medication Part 1 with Dr Carolyn Lentzsch Parcells

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    ADHD in Our Daily Lives with Dr Carolyn the ADHD MD

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    ADHD, Loss, and the Sandwich Generation with Anita Robertson LCSW

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    ROUGH CUT: ADHD Con 2023 Day 1

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    Helping Kids Learn Learnfully with Suchi Deshpande

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    The ADHD Field Guide to Adults with Cate "Catieosaurus" Osborn and Erik Gude

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    Focus 101 with Cris Rat

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    Reflections on Helping with Your Helpful Host Brendan Mahan

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    Why You Skipped Your Workout with Seoniadh Jameson

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    Anxiety Audit with Lynn Lyons, LICSW

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    Thoughts on Masking with Brendan Mahan your domino-donning-and-doffing dude

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    Navigating the Holidays, Social Spying, and Sensitive Kids with Caroline Maguire

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    Overcoming Burnout with David Greenwood

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    Rough Cut ADHD Con 2022 Day 3

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    Rough Cut ADHD Con 2022 Day 2

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    Rough Cut! ADHD Con 2022 Day 1

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    ADHD and Lying with Dr. Norrine Russell

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    Why ADHD is Poorly Named with Brendan Mahan Your Acceptably Named Host

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    Moving Beyond Structure Routine and Productivity with Cathy Rashidian of Ready Set Choose Coaching

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    Getting Back on the Horse: Thoughts on Supporting Our Kids, and the Role of Anxiety in Performance with Brendan Mahan, Your Host in Absentia.

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    Healthy Screen Time Use with Dr. Randy Kulman of LearningWorks for Kids

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    From the Vault: ADHD and Giftedness with Dr. Robert Gruberman

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    Rough Cut! Reflections from Day 2 of the International Conference on ADHD 2021

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    ·42m
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    The ADHD Field Guide to Adults with Cate "Catieosaurus" Osborn and Erik Gude

    Hidden gem

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    Apr 9, 2026·42m·2 clips
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    Feb 12, 2026·45m·2 clips
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    How Restrictions Help ADHD and Creativity Thrive with Bradley Smith II

    Hidden gem

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    Feb 2, 2026·34m·1 clip
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    Thoughts on ADHD & Goals for 2026

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    Jan 10, 2026·10m
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    ROUGH CUT: ADHD Con 2025 Day 2

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    ROUGH CUT: ADHD Con 2025 Day 1

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    Nov 18, 2025·17m·1 clip
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    The Importance of Community with Dr. Larry Jones

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    Nov 12, 2025·39m·2 clips
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    ADHD Essentials RETURNS!!!

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    Feb 11, 2025·40m·2 clips
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    Oct 16, 2024·38m
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    May 30, 2024·23m
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    Overwhelm & Needing a Team with Dr Carolyn Lentzch-Parcells

    May 22, 2024·43m
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    ADHD for Smart Ass Women with Tracy Otsuka

    May 10, 2024·40m
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    May 3, 2024·40m
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    Neurodiversity and Leadership with Talli Dolge and Amanda Morin

    Apr 25, 2024·40m
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    ADHD Medication Part 1 with Dr Carolyn Lentzsch Parcells

    Apr 19, 2024·38m
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    ADHD in Our Daily Lives with Dr Carolyn the ADHD MD

    Apr 10, 2024·26m
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    Peter Shankman and The Boy with the Faster Brain

    Apr 3, 2024·32m
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    ADHD, Loss, and the Sandwich Generation with Anita Robertson LCSW

    Mar 6, 2024·42m
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    ADHD Advocacy and Family with Mark Smeets

    Feb 2, 2024·24m
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    How to ADHD with author Jessica McCabe

    Jan 4, 2024·39m
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    ADHD and Eating with Dr. Roberto Olivardia

    Dec 23, 2023·48m
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    Gifted and Distractible with Julie Skolnick, MA, JD

    Brendan Mahan interviews parents and experts about ADHD in childhood and offers coaching to improve family relationships.

    Dec 13, 2023·35m
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    ROUGH CUT: ADHD Con 2023 Day 1

    Dec 1, 2023·29m
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    Helping Kids Learn Learnfully with Suchi Deshpande

    Nov 25, 2023·40m
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    Nov 18, 2023·34m
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    Focus 101 with Cris Rat

    Nov 11, 2023·15m
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    Reflections on Helping with Your Helpful Host Brendan Mahan

    Nov 4, 2023·10m
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    Extra Focus with ADHD Jesse

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    Mar 28, 2023·56m
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    Rough Cut ADHD Con 2022 Day 3

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    Rough Cut ADHD Con 2022 Day 2

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    Rough Cut! ADHD Con 2022 Day 1

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