A social life, with friends

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Conversations with experts, authors, and friends explore how we can better navigate the joy and the heartbreak of being a person in the world, with other people. Created, produced and hosted by Madeleine Dore. For more projects and offers, visit www.madeleinedore.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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A fridge defender and a retreating lobster: somehow, both can help you handle other people.

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  • to say no without treating someone's disappointment like an emergency
  • to see how shared-house chores can become an arrangement everyone understands
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On navigating the friendship dipMar 13, 2024

A quiet, clear-eyed look at why adult friendships thin and what it takes to keep them.

This episode treats adult friendship as something that wears down gradually, not as a bond that breaks in one clean moment. Drawing on Kat Velos, it notes that many adults lose one to two friends a year, often because people move away, and asks what it takes to keep the ties…

On retreating and re-emergingFeb 22, 2024

A calm, concrete guide to retreat, honesty, and quiet support.

Retreat here is treated as a practical pause, not a defeat. A lobster under a rock while it sheds and regrows gives the episode its clearest image, but the stronger move is simpler: making room to ask for distance, rest, or help without turning that need into a speech.

On living well with other peopleFeb 7, 2024

A thoughtful look at how friendship becomes daily practice, not just good feeling.

A Social Life with Friends turns a broad social question into something lived and specific. It follows how people share space, money, chores, worry, and hope without losing kindness, moving from the pressures of the housing crisis into the quieter mechanics of co-living.

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Episodes

  1. 1

    On making and maintaining friendships

    Friendship expert Kat Velos discusses how perceived difficulties in friendship are actually challenges like courage, scheduling, and vulnerability, reframing common complaints.

    Apr 1, 2024·17m
  2. 2

    On navigating the friendship dip

    Hidden gem

    Madeline Dorr opens with a plain kind of ache.

    Mar 13, 2024·25m·1 clip
  3. 3

    On retreating and re-emerging

    Hidden gem

    Madeline Dorr starts with Mari Andrew’s lobster image of retreat during a growth period.

    Feb 22, 2024·26m·1 clip
  4. 4

    On living well with other people

    Hidden gem

    Madeline Dorr opens with Eve Grzybowski describing how a group of friends imagined retiring together in their dream home.

    Feb 7, 2024·27m·1 clip
  5. 5

    On reframing people-pleasing

    Hidden gem

    A Social Life, with friends examines how people-pleasing develops when honesty and self-expression have been treated as unsafe or disappointing.

    Jan 15, 2024·28m·1 clip
  6. 6

    On making resolutions for your social life

    Exploring how to prioritize deeper connection and friendship over individualistic goals in the new year.

    Jan 1, 2024·26m
  7. 7

    On bringing people together

    Hidden gem

    Madeline Dorr asks Tina Roth-Eisenberg, founder of Creative Mornings, how to bring people together through intentional gatherings.

    Dec 15, 2023·18m·1 clip
  8. 8

    On improving your social life

    Host Madeleine Dore explores how to improve social lives and combat loneliness through conversations with experts and friends.

    Dec 1, 2023·25m
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    Coming soon: A social life, with friends

    Nov 1, 2023·5m