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29(19).The Korean War Never Ended: Family Trauma Across Generations

October 2, 2025·15 min·1 clip
The post-war survival strategy was an unspoken national agreement: 'Don't talk about it. Endure it. Work.'—where voicing pain was dangerous.
This episode analyzes the hidden, intergenerational psychological trauma of the Korean War, using researcher Ji Won's notes to explore concepts like 'ambiguous loss,' the seismic 1983 'Finding Dispersed Families' TV broadcast, and how survival strategies like silence and the 'fortress family' unit shaped modern Korean society's competitive pressures and collective anxiety.

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A clear, painful look at how war can survive inside a family.

The episode treats the Korean War as something that never really stayed at the armistice line. Through Ji Won's research notes, it moves from wartime silence to the habits of survival that followed: a father jumping at a backfire, a mother stocking rice, a family and a country…

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Hear how a war that officially stopped can still leave a family braced for impact.

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