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S2, Ep. 1: Flipping The Script - The History and How-To of One of the Top Kinks Today

·1 hr 14 min·5 clips

Dr. Tiffany Kaye reveals why pegging, a taboo act with ancient origins, is the most asked-about topic across her platforms.

This episode focuses on the history, cultural rise, and practical aspects of pegging, hosted by Dr. Tiffany Kaye, a board-certified sexologist and intimacy consultant. Dr. Kaye opens by explaining her hiatus was due to a busy schedule involving client work, research, modeling, and family. The central topic is pegging, which she defines as the act of a person using a strap-on to anally penetrate a partner, a practice she notes is now inclusive of all genders. She traces the term's origin to sex columnist Dan Savage in 2001 and notes its appearance in mainstream media like the film "Deadpool" and TV shows "Broad City" and "Weeds." Dr. Kaye cites a 2022 Pornhub insights report showing the term "pegging" is searched over 3 million times monthly worldwide, with men 28% more likely to search it than women. The data indicates the 55-64 age group searches for pegging 36% more than other age ranges, which she theorizes links to greater curiosity and life experience. Historical artifacts discussed include a potential strap-on from the Upper Paleolithic period (c. 10,000 BC), a Japanese wooden strap-on dildo, and a jade double-ended dildo from the 10th-13th century. She mentions ancient Egyptian mythology also depicted strap-on use in rituals. Dr. Kaye highlights physiological aspects, noting the anus has about 4,000 nerve endings and prostate stimulation can lead to powerful, full-bodied orgasms. She presents pegging as a potential option for those experiencing erectile dysfunction, as it can facilitate pleasure and orgasm without requiring an erection. For the person wearing the strap-on, she describes the act as empowering, especially for those exploring dominance or switching roles. Dr. Kaye emphasizes that for transgender or non-binary individuals, pegging can be an affirming experience that may evoke strong emotions. The discussion covers practical advice, stressing the need for extended relaxation time, open communication, and dedicated aftercare to process any emotions that arise. The tone is conversational, educational, and enthusiastically sex-positive, blending personal anecdote with referenced statistics and historical examples. Listeners interested in BDSM, sexual history, and inclusive sexual practices would appreciate this episode, while those uncomfortable with explicit discussions of anal play or alternative sexual lifestyles might prefer to skip it.

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Frank kink education with a direct, conversational feel.

Season two opens with Dr. Tiffany Kaye back in regular podcast mode, and it moves fast into frank kink education. The episode settles in when it gets practical, with a clear focus on anal play, prostate stimulation, comfort, relaxation, and the value of pacing instead of…

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