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632: Building Healthier Workplaces Through Attuned Leadership (with Nidhi Tewari)

·55 min·3 clips
Nidhi Tewari says the reset framework starts with noticing a reaction before naming emotion, soothing, exploring, and telling someone.
The episode opens with the Strategy Skills Podcast introduction and Kris Soporova welcoming Nidhi Tiwari. From there, the conversation moves quickly from setup into the mechanics of how people change. The discussion stays close to the details of memory and response instead of drifting into slogans. It keeps coming back to the pieces of an experience that matter most: what happened, how it feels, what emotions it stirs up, and what the body does with that memory. Tiwari explains that identifying a core belief is not guesswork. A therapist helps look at the different components of the memory and find the belief about yourself that fits the experience best. That guidance matters. The episode makes clear that the listener is not expected to figure the process out alone, because the therapist walks them through it. The practical explanation is concrete. Tiwari describes several ways the technique can be done, including moving the eyes back and forth, using tapping, or holding buzzer-like devices. Those details are not there just for color. They are used to explain the theory that the method evokes a REM-sleep-like state in which the brain is already doing memory consolidation and filing work. The sleep analogy keeps the explanation accessible. Rather than leaning on technical jargon, the conversation uses the idea of dreaming and memory filing to explain why rhythmic eye movement or tapping may help access stored information. By the end, the episode has a clear center of gravity. It is about the hidden beliefs and memory patterns underneath present behavior, and about the therapeutic process used to surface and work with them. The closing feel is instructional. Listeners are left with a simple frame: if behavior is the surface, the work is in the memory, belief, emotion, and body response underneath it.

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Behavior gets clearer when the beliefs tied to memory are brought into view.

This episode stays with a practical problem: how beliefs, emotions, body sensations, and older memories keep steering behavior. Nidhi Tiwari is at her best when she moves from idea to mechanism, especially in the way she explains how a therapist helps identify the belief that…

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