Slaycation: True Crimes, Murders, and Twisted Vacations · Kim Davis, Adam "Tex" Davis, Jerry Kolber; True Crime Podcast

Throuples Counseling #6

·30 min·2 clips
Liz has been with her husband since she was 16 and married since 1998.
1. Slaycation: True Crimes, Murders, and Twisted Vacations uses a “Throuples Counseling” segment to answer listener relationship and friendship problems. 2. Adam, Kim, and Jerry speak as a long-time friend trio, and they mention being friends for 30 plus years and having their own partner relationships. 3. The first letter from Kristen Fremont asks whether a six-person fall cabin weekend should continue after two people canceled late and the organizer stopped planning. 4. The core question is whether the group should restart the cabin trip without the organizer or wait for her to recover from being hurt. 5. Jerry argues that anyone who commits to a cabin should still pay their share even if they back out later. 6. The hosts suggest collecting money early and setting a hard cutoff date so the group is not left covering costs. 7. They treat the organizer as someone who has carried the work for 15 years and should have been thanked earlier. 8. The panel says the other friends should call her, acknowledge the hurt, and ask whether she wants to keep planning. 9. Kim and Jerry say a direct conversation is better than letting the group drift apart or guessing about her feelings. 10. They also recommend new rules, including a “drop dead date” and a requirement to pay once someone says yes. 11. Jerry briefly compares the cabin expense model to a timeshare and says it works only if everyone pays. 12. The hosts warn against texting or emailing an uncomfortable message when the issue needs a phone call. 13. Liz Caldwell then writes about a marriage that has lasted since 1998 and a relationship that began when she was 16. 14. She says her husband is 55, has been clinically obese for 12 years, and now has erectile dysfunction tied to depression, medication, weight, and night shift work. 15. Kim reframes intimacy as more than sex and asks about hand-holding, kissing, cuddling, and physical closeness. 16. The hosts say sex can be taken off the table while the couple rebuilds comfort and connection. 17. Adam and Kim suggest couples therapy, online counseling, and possibly nutrition support as practical next steps. 18. The tone shifts between jokey banter and serious advice, with frequent interruptions and examples from the hosts’ own lives. 19. Listeners who like funny relationship advice with concrete rules and boundaries. 20. Listeners looking for heavy true-crime storytelling without advice chatter.
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