Sexy Marriage Radio · Dr Corey and Pam Allan

Too Much Focus On The Beginning – Live from the Getaway #735

·29 min·2 clips
Corey explains why obsessing over who initiates sex might actually lower desire in your marriage.
The hosts explore how focusing too much on initiating sex can lead to mechanical encounters and lower desire, advocating for a more present, connected approach throughout the entire sexual arc. They discuss tools like eye contact, sexual prowess, and renegotiating energy to move toward deeper intimacy, ending with research on peak sexual satisfaction in later years.

As heard by us

A careful look at whether intimacy gets stuck at the finish.

The episode takes a marriage and sex question and opens it into a wider look at where attention settles: the start, the middle, or the finish.

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Why you'd press play

If you keep getting stuck on the beginning, this one widens the frame.

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