Dr. Schnarsh says we want to be wanted but often settle for being needed—and that never satisfies.
As heard by us
Desire gets sharper when the question shifts from wanting sex to becoming worth wanting.
Desire is treated here as a plain human problem, not a neat theory. The conversation keeps coming back to the marriage question underneath it: what happens when one person wants more, and the other does not.
Why you'd press play
For when you keep asking why desire feels one-sided.
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