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Maryann Karinch: After Trauma — Nurturing Physical Intimacy | Reloscope #69

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Marie Stella opens the episode by welcoming Marianne Kerinch, a human behaviour expert and author of Sex and Cancer and Intimacy, Romance, and Love After Diagnosis and Treatment, for a conversation about how trauma can leave deep emotional scars and shape intimacy. The discussion treats recovery as delicate ground, especially when a relationship is involved. Karinch keeps it grounded. She asks whether someone in the middle of something difficult can hold hands or hug, and what that touch feels like. If it feels awful, that says something; if it does not, that says something too. The episode also looks at how a lack of physical intimacy can affect a couple's daily life, since it can wear down connection. Karinch uses a dog analogy to make the point plain: if a dog needs a walk and does not get one, it loses connection, and a similar hurt can show up when one partner pushes closeness away. The conversation keeps returning to the idea that both the person living with trauma and the person beside them may need language for what they can and cannot handle. The practical thread stays clear. Listeners get a patient look at how intimacy, consent, reassurance, and connection can be handled one small step at a time.

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A steady take on how trauma can change closeness.

Marie Stella and Marianne Kerinch keep the focus on how trauma and physical intimacy can get tangled together. The discussion does not try to solve that quickly.

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If touch feels complicated, this starts with tiny, low-stakes steps.

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