ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show · Tony & Alisa DiLorenzo

Not Mentally Present During Sex

·29 min·2 clips

Researchers coined 'spectatoring' to describe watching yourself during sex instead of being present.

Tony and Alisa DiLorenzo discuss the common issue of not being mentally present during sex, exploring research on 'spectatoring' and nine categories of distracting thoughts. They share listener experiences and offer practical strategies to improve focus and intimacy in marriage.

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