Tony admits he secretly checked the clock during sex to gauge if it lasted long enough.
As heard by us
A candid conversation about pressure, pacing, and the honesty intimacy asks for.
It frames how long sex should last as less a stopwatch question than a test of pressure, connection, and whether couples can stay present instead of silently grading themselves.
Why you'd press play
When timing turns into pressure, this gives you a better question to ask.
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