ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show · Tony & Alisa DiLorenzo

Hard Reset

·31 min·2 clips
A listener reveals how he beat a 21-year porn addiction and reignited his marriage with two seven-day sex challenges.
Tony and Alisa DiLorenzo discuss the concept of a 'hard reset' in marriage, using the six pillars of intimacy as a framework to break out of ruts and rebuild intentional connection. They share listener stories, statistics on marriage prioritization, and practical steps for implementing resets, including handling obstacles and scheduling intimacy.

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A practical marriage reset built around small habits, clear choices, and forward motion.

Tony and Elisa treat marriage repair as a hard reset, and that frame keeps the episode moving. They focus on the small, familiar friction that can wear a couple down: awkward hugs, chewing habits, the kind of irritation that makes closeness feel heavier than it should.

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When your marriage feels stuck, this gives you a hard reset for getting momentum back.

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