MTGM EXTRA! "Is this cheating?"

April 8, 2026·18 min·1 clip

The fiancé admitted he later masturbated thinking about the woman he grinded with at the stag.

The episode opens with Vogue Williams, Joanne McNally, and Jo Attewell introducing a bonus episode. They start with a lighthearted discussion about an Uber scam in China, where drivers post scary profile pictures to make riders cancel and collect fees. The conversation shifts to personal anecdotes about safety concerns with ride-shares. Vogue then reads a listener email titled 'Is this cheating?' from a woman whose fiancé returned from a stag weekend with a guilty confession. He admitted to dancing sexily and grinding with another woman while drunk, and later masturbated thinking about her. The hosts react with shock and humor, debating whether this is cheating. Joanne argues that the fiancé's over-sharing is selfish, meant to absolve his guilt, and references therapist Esther Perel's view that such confessions force the partner to 'take a bullet.' Vogue questions why the fiancé would reveal such intimate details, comparing it to sharing weird sex dreams. The discussion touches on themes of trust, territorial instincts in relationships, and the line between honesty and harm. The episode concludes with a reminder about the podcast's YouTube channel and credits.

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A bonus episode that turns one grinding story into a pointed argument about honesty, cruelty, and where cheating begins.

A strange Uber loophole built around unsettling driver photos gives this bonus its first spark, but the episode quickly settles into a thornier question: where does cheating actually begin?

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You want a cheating debate that gets from grinding to sex dolls before anyone finds a tidy definition.

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