We Do(n't) Podcast Episode 86: Don't Cut Me Off

·33 min·3 clips

Chelsea almost got kidnapped by the cartel, sparking a family crisis over their son's trip to Mexico.

The episode begins with Mojo and Chelsea introducing themselves and teasing a dramatic story about Chelsea almost being kidnapped by the cartel. They explain they took a break from podcasting due to vacation and family matters. The main topic revolves around their son Luke's planned trip to Mexico, which coincided with cartel activity in Puerto Vallarta, causing parental anxiety. Mojo and Chelsea initially disagreed on letting Luke go, with Mojo citing relative safety and Chelsea fearing legal trouble in Mexico. Chelsea ultimately decided to go to Cancun with a friend to supervise, feeling it eased her worries. They reflect on how their parenting compares to previous generations, questioning if they are too protective. Mojo's father advised letting Luke go as an adult, sparking a discussion on coddling. The conversation then shifts to marital dynamics, where Chelsea confronts Mojo about frequently cutting her off during conversations, which makes her feel disrespected and insecure. She links this to past insecurities in social settings. Mojo admits he may avoid intense topics by interrupting, preferring to defer difficult discussions. Chelsea emphasizes she seeks listening, not solutions, from Mojo. They explore differences in handling stress, with Mojo being a 'runner' and Chelsea a 'confronter'. The episode ends with Mojo promising to be more conscious of not interrupting, though light-heartedly suggests sending Chelsea on another trip. Throughout, the hosts blend personal stories with broader themes of parenting, communication, and relationship challenges.

As heard by us

A discussion of freedom, risk, and gender differences gives the episode its clearest edge.

The episode turns a familiar parent-child debate into something more pointed: how much freedom children should have, and how much risk adults are willing to accept.

Read the full review in PlayNext →

Why you'd press play

You get a family-and-friends chat about when kids can handle being out late, with a Chicago-at-2-a.m. edge.

Read the full recommendation in PlayNext →

Listen to the show on

Apple Podcasts Spotify

Play clips from this episode More from More Mojo Podcast