MarriageToday with Jimmy & Karen Evans

How to Change Your Attitude

·23 min·2 clips
Jimmy Evans explains how your attitude, like an airplane's indicator, determines whether you're climbing or crashing in life.
The episode opens with Jimmy Evans defining attitude from the dictionary as a settled way of thinking and a body position, then linking it to an airplane's attitude indicator. He introduces the biblical theme from Romans 12 about not conforming to the world but being transformed by renewing the mind to know God's perfect will. Evans quotes John Maxwell's book 'The Winning Attitude,' describing attitude as the advanced man of our true selves. He presents five truths about attitudes: we choose them, they aren't tied to circumstances, happiness is a chosen attitude, God rewards good attitudes and disciplines bad ones, and good attitudes predict success. The first truth is illustrated with Viktor Frankl's story in Auschwitz, where he chose dignity and non-hatred despite his family's murder. The second truth uses examples of Adam and Eve in paradise, King David writing psalms in bad times but sinning in good times, and Apostle Paul praising God in prison. The third truth discusses happiness as a choice, citing comedian Carol Burnett's difficult childhood. The fourth truth explains God's discipline of attitudes through Hebrews 12, comparing it to parenting, with a personal story about disciplining his granddaughter Kate. The fifth truth uses the airplane attitude indicator analogy to show how attitudes guide us in unclear times, referencing John Kennedy Jr.'s fatal crash due to vertigo. The episode concludes with Brent Evans promoting XOMarriage resources.
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