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Family, Shame, and Becoming Yourself | Legally Clueless Ep359 Part 1
·53 min·5 clips
Hekaya explains how parents' shame shapes family dynamics to protect their social image.
As heard by us
A candid family story about shame, pressure, and the awkward work of becoming yourself.
Adele Onyango opens episode 359, the first episode of 2026, by tying family shame to the choices young people are pushed toward, including the pressure of picking a course that could shape the next 10 years.
Why you'd press play
Press play if you want a frank first-episode-of-2026 family story about being pushed to choose your future, the way parental shame moves through a house, and a six-week babysitting stint that tests your patience.
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