Leah on Love: A Podcast on Dating and Relationships · Meleah Manning

Quantum Time Release: Forgive, Heal, and Attract Love with Riana Malia

·1 hr 1 min·5 clips

Rihanna moved her family across the country only to discover a business built on illegal activities.

This episode features transformation coach Rihanna Malia, who specializes in helping ambitious women heal from past relationship trauma. Host Leah Remillet explores Malia's personal journey and her "Clear to Create" methodology for breaking negative cycles. Rihanna Malia moved to California with her daughter after a divorce, only to face a business betrayal involving law enforcement. She discovered quantum healing techniques, which she says allowed her to heal without reliving traumatic memories. Malia's work focuses on clearing unconscious patterns stored at a cellular level to stop the recreation of painful dynamics. She explains that the unconscious mind, which constitutes 90% of our mental activity, seeks resolution by recreating familiar traumas in new relationships. Malia's "Quantum Time Release" process aims to release the emotional charge from past events in a specific order: anger, sadness, fear, guilt, and shame. She uses the analogy of marbles on a ribbon to describe how emotional experiences accumulate over a lifetime. A key exercise involves creating an "away wall" list of things you don't want and a "toward wall" for desires, highlighting that most daily thoughts are negative and recycled. Malia emphasizes the importance of establishing core values and non-negotiables to serve as a decision-making tool in dating. She argues that without this clarity, people often settle for what they ordered, not what they truly wanted. Forgiveness is framed as a three-part process involving the person who hurt you, those who didn't support you, and yourself. Malia shares that forgiving her father, with whom she no longer speaks, was about reclaiming her own peace and power. She states that holding onto anger is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die, consuming the energy needed for joy. The conversation is educational and conversational, blending personal storytelling with actionable coaching frameworks. Listeners interested in alternative healing modalities and mindset work for post-divorce dating will find this episode compelling. Those skeptical of concepts like quantum biology or trauma release without traditional therapy may find it less relevant.

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An earnest relationship episode about why patterns repeat and how to change them.

Leah on Love treats dating as a pattern recognition problem, and Rihanna Malia keeps it rooted in lived experience. She links childhood, trauma, and unconscious habits to the people someone chooses and the way they show up in relationships.

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If the same relationship pattern keeps looping, start here.

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