I'm OK You're OK, I'm Not OK You're Not OK

Episode 274 - Playing By Different Rules

·31 min·3 clips
A Santa Claus-looking announcer screams at the top of his lungs to introduce their acoustic show, leaving everyone stupefied.
Bob Schneider opens the episode by describing the exhaustion of a 20-day tour, contrasting his desire to be home with bandmates who treat it as a party. He mentions missing his daughter's birthday and first day of third grade. The conversation shifts to performing, with Bob detailing two consecutive shows at the Raccoon Motel in Davenport. The first was a sold-out acoustic show where the artist told the crowd to be quiet. The second was a free festival show with a mixed audience, including drunk attendees. Bob recounts the bizarre introduction by Mike Steel, who screamed unexpectedly, shocking everyone. They discuss strategies for handling unruly crowds, with Bob explaining he now communicates his sadness openly instead of getting angry. He shares an anecdote about offering a disruptive fan $20 to leave, only for the fan to cry and claim he planned to propose. Clint Wells then tells a story about a threatening encounter outside a show in Lincoln, Nebraska, where a drunk stranger named Barry said he had a knife and was close to stabbing him. Clint describes the confusion and fear, noting the stranger was with a group that didn't even know him. The hosts reflect on the dangers of interacting with fans, with Clint warning that most are cool but you never know when you'll meet a 'psycho.' They joke about the episode finally covering life-on-the-road stories as intended, referencing a South by Southwest-style podcast concept. The episode ends with advice to avoid threatening people and consider drinking less.

As heard by us

A candid, funny conversation about turning tour fatigue and audience noise into stage endurance.

Bob Schneider and Clint Wells frame the strain of a 20-day tour as a study in staying professional when the job keeps taking more than it gives.

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Why you'd press play

You want a candid road-weary reset on what 20 days of touring does to sleep, patience, and the ability to stay professional when the room will not quiet down.

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