How To Talk To Girls Podcast · Tripp Kramer

Professional Photographer Reveals The Best Online Dating Photo

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Kristen says filling all 9 photo spots matters because each image sends a message.

Tripp opens by saying it has been a minute since he has done any info on online dating, but the topic matters more than ever. He brings in Kristen Nguyen, a professional photographer, to get tactical about dating photos. They start with hiring someone local who understands what makes a profile work. Then they move into preparation, because the shoot starts before the camera ever comes out. The episode keeps circling back to the same point: the photos are the first thing a profile viewer can really judge. Bio text helps a little bit, but not much. That means the pictures have to do a lot of the heavy lifting up front. The conversation pushes for variety instead of one-note shots. A headshot, a body shot, and a passion shot give a better read on who the guy is. Kristen explains that the passion shot should show you doing something you enjoy. It should not just be hunting, fishing, or hanging out with friends every time. Clothing gets a lot of attention too. Kristen mentions an app called Style & Select for planning outfits. If a guy does not use that, she is still happy to look at photos of possible clothes by text. The episode is blunt about fit and confidence. If something looks wrinkled, wrong, or not flattering, it is better to know before the shoot. She also suggests treating yourself to a new outfit if that helps. Grooming is part of the job as well. A haircut a couple of days before can help, and a clean line in the back can matter. They even mention cleaning up eyebrows if that is part of your routine. Tailoring comes up next, especially for suits and jackets. Too much room makes the outfit look puffy or oversized in photos. In colder weather, especially in the Northeast, the jacket should still fit close enough to look sharp. By the close, the message is simple: good photos can make or break a profile, and this episode gives guys a practical way to get there.

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Straightforward advice for men who want stronger dating profile photos.

Tripp Kramer lays out a practical approach to online dating photos. He recommends hiring a photographer in your area, preparing before the shoot, and choosing images that show a clear mix of looks and interests.

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Make your dating photos do the heavy lifting before you say a word.

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