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Here’s Why Flirting FAILS on 90% of Women

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D women are described as “dominant and direct,” and Marni calls them “a lioness.”

1. How To GET THE GIRL - An Ask Women Podcast frames the episode around why the same flirting tactic can work with one woman and fail with another. 2. Marni, the host and “your personal wing girl,” speaks with Nadia, a fellow wing girl who has helped thousands of men master flirting and created the DISC chart. 3. The episode asks what DISC is, why it has four categories, and how men can use it to flirt “the right way” with different women. 4. Nadia says the DISC chart is widely used in sales and management by big companies to build rapport quickly at work. 5. She says the same chart can be applied to dating because first impressions happen in only “a few minutes” and often within “10 minutes.” 6. Marni and Nadia say women often need time to understand why a man is approaching them, especially when attraction is not immediate. 7. Nadia says communication matters because people like to be spoken to in different ways, with different “flavor” in the conversation. 8. She says some women want a more “fun,” “spicy,” or neutral style, while others respond better to curiosity. 9. Nadia explains that most people have two primary DISC styles: a social mask used with new people and a comfortable style used around a social circle. 10. She says the goal is to recognize the social mask first and then notice the other traits as a conversation opens up. 11. Nadia defines D as dominant and direct, calls her a “lioness,” and links the type to women in executive positions. 12. She says D women are competitive, goal-oriented, and sometimes challenge men playfully or with direct flirting and teasing. 13. Nadia advises men to avoid rambling, indecision, and passivity with D women and instead say things like, “I really like your energy.” 14. Marni describes I as the “social butterfly,” and Nadia says this type is fun, outgoing, expressive, and charming. 15. Nadia says dates with I women should be interesting and tailored to what she wants to do, almost like “hitting a bucket list together.” 16. Nadia defines S as more introverted, a “wifey type” or “girl next door,” who may hold back and not show obvious interest at first. 17. She says S women respond to consistency, genuine interest, and a man who shows his intent without rushing. 18. Nadia defines C as introverted and thoughtful, calling her a “geeky girl” who may be absorbed in an art project or a book. 19. The conversation is practical and instructional, with Marni repeatedly asking how men can use the chart in approaching, dating, and relationships. 20. Anyone who likes dating frameworks, body-language cues, and direct flirting examples should get value from this episode, while listeners wanting a broad relationship discussion may skip it.

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