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Ep. 548 How to Date When You’re New in Town

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Activities are interactive. Spots are where you sit alone and lose confidence.

Ask Wynne podcast 'Help a Brother Out' features Perruco, 43, who relocated to LA alone and struggles with dating/socializing despite prior East Coast success. Hosts Marnie and Kristen diagnose the issue: cultural shock (West Coast ambiguity vs East Coast directness) + loss of identity/confidence + passive approach (going to 'spots' vs 'activities'). They provide specific LA-based activities (bike rides, art walks, LACMA concerts, food truck nights), permission to use dating strategically for exploration, and mindset reframes. Kristen's Tinder transformation serves as proof that change is possible.

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Loose studio banter keeps a practical dating discussion moving.

This episode stays close to dating in a new city, but it keeps circling back to the smaller stuff that actually makes the advice usable: building a social circle, getting comfortable in your own skin, and not overthinking every first move.

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New city, no circle, and zero patience for dating guesswork.

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