Helmy Yahya Bicara

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·1 hr 9 min·5 clips
Helmy Yahya reveals his idol, Dr. Aisyah Dahlan, who handles drug addicts since 1998, sparking intrigue about her journey.
In this episode of Helmy Yahya Bicara, host Helmy Yahya interviews Dr. Aisyah Dahlan, a public doctor and drug recovery specialist. Dr. Aisyah shares her personal journey into drug rehabilitation, starting in 1998 when her sister was addicted, leading her to work with institutions like Slank. She discusses the factors behind drug addiction, emphasizing family contributions, particularly parents who scold children. The episode shifts to marital relationships, where Dr. Aisyah explains brain differences between men and women based on research by Alan and Barbara Pease. She notes that women speak about 20,000 words daily compared to men's 7,000, and men have a wider hypothalamus, affecting security needs. Practical tips are offered, such as scheduling conversations for 15 minutes and avoiding advice in front of others. Dr. Aisyah also covers sleep patterns, mentioning that men's brains are 70% off during sleep while women's are 90% on. The discussion touches on emotional management, the importance of not rejecting a husband's intimate advances, and how income dynamics can strain marriages. Throughout, Dr. Aisyah blends scientific insights with Islamic references, like verses from the Quran, to support her points. The episode concludes with advice for couples to watch the content together for better understanding.
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