Feeling Good Podcast | TEAM-CBT - The New Mood Therapy · David Burns, MD

Ask David: The Fear of Being Alone or Abandoned. . . and More!

July 7, 2025·1 hr 10 min·5 clips
David Burns breaks down why thinking 'there's something wrong with me if I'm alone' contains 10 cognitive distortions.
Dr. David Burns and hosts Rhonda and Matt answer listener questions on overcoming the fear of abandonment using CBT tools like the daily mood log and cost-benefit analysis. They also discuss how to live with anxious or depressed loved ones without absorbing their emotions, with Rhonda sharing her personal cancer diagnosis journey.

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A practical, CBT-heavy look at abandonment fear and learning to stand alone.

This episode takes fear of being alone as a set of habits that can be tested, not a personal defect. Rhonda Borowski, David Burns, and Matt May move through abandonment fear by naming the distortions that keep it in place: overgeneralization, self-blame, mind reading, emotional…

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Abandonment panic, meet a blunt CBT map.

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