F*ck Buddies: A Sex and Dating Advice Podcast · Dain Miller & Niall Spain

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They've had sex for nearly four years with no birth control and are still asking how to keep going after coming.

1. F*ck Buddies: A Sex and Dating Advice Podcast centers this episode on sex, initiation, contraception, and consent. 2. Dane Miller and Niall Spain host the show and answer audience-submitted questions from listeners like agent ashes, sufficient sailor, M dog got my ass, and one journalist, 74 91. 3. The episode asks what to do when sex feels consensual but still feels off, and whether a partner can keep going after coming without pregnancy risk. 4. The first listener says his girlfriend is 43, he is 30, and she only wants him to initiate sex. 5. He says he feels like he is using her as a 'sex doll' because her desire is completely reactionary. 6. The hosts separate his problem into reassurance about consent and a second question about whether he actually wants to be the only initiator. 7. They suggest a clinical conversation that covers guilt, desire, and whether she can take more of an active role. 8. They also ask whether the couple is rushing straight to penetrative sex without much foreplay or lead-up. 9. The second listener is an early-twenties man whose girlfriend is also in her early twenties and who says they use no birth control. 10. He asks how to keep having sex right away after coming because he wants to pull out and get back to the action. 11. The hosts react strongly to the phrase 'no form of birth control whatsoever' after nearly four years together. 12. They say the question is not really about technique because avoiding pregnancy requires protection, not improvising after ejaculation. 13. One host says there is no safe way to keep going if the goal is to avoid impregnating her. 14. They push back on the logic of treating the moment after orgasm as the point where safety suddenly matters. 15. They also say that if the real issue is making sure she climaxes, the answer may be hands, toys, or oral before penetration. 16. A third listener asks whether a little sweat after a shower is a deal breaker after a friend with benefits unexpectedly ate her ass. 17. The hosts say sweat is not the problem and that the real issue is eating an ass without prior consent. 18. They use the example to draw a line between normal bodily fluids and a sexual act that needs preparation and agreement. 19. The episode sounds like a fast, blunt advice segment with jokes, interruptions, and direct back-and-forth between the two hosts. 20. Anyone weighing sex, consent, and awkward initiation habits would get something useful from this episode.

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