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Third Annual Happy Crappy: Let’s Start with the Crappies

December 23, 2025·54 min·4 clips

Kelly Corrigan maps the moment when life stops expanding and starts contracting, and asks what anyone can actually do about it.

The excerpt begins with promotion. Kate points listeners to other Lemonada shows, and then the conversation moves into something quieter: work, attention, and the small private shame of having too many tabs open in your own mind. The guest calls it monkey mind. Nobody turns it into a neat diagnosis. It sounds more like the weather she works inside, the condition under which screenplays, memoir, podcasting, and home building all somehow keep going. There are papers everywhere. Clipboards, printouts, decision trees. The clutter starts to feel less like a punchline and more like proof that this is a life making several things at once, whether or not that was the plan. Envy gets a little airtime too. The guest looks at people who have spent 40 or 50 years doing one thing and wonders what might have happened with that kind of narrowing. Margaret Atwood becomes the person she can point to. Head down, still putting words on paper, still catching thoughts before they disappear. The guest admires that discipline without quite pretending it could be hers. That is where the conversation loosens. Kate meets the confession with a kind refusal of self-punishment. Other people's gifts can be admired without being turned into a stick. Acceptance sounds almost comic here, in the best way. No grand lesson. Just the plain little fact that you are not that person, and maybe you do not have to be. The talk keeps drifting toward devotion. Kate asks what is being watered, not as a productivity trick, but as something alive enough to need care. Family comes forward. She sees the guest as a family person, pulled toward the crowded middle of a kitchen where everyone talks over everyone. That image does some real work. It pulls the episode away from abstract questions about output and back toward the places where a life gives itself away. The closing returns to ads, which matters for the clip: the tender part sits between promotional reads that have nearly the same warm, personal texture.

As heard by us

A quiet case for making peace with a divided mind.

Kate spends the episode circling a familiar ache: wanting to be a one thing person, then having to face a mind that keeps moving across different projects.

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For when your brain has three projects, two clipboards, and one stubborn conscience.

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