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I'm Struggling With My Adult Stepdaughter

·11 min·1 clip
Glancing at your phone for one second at 50 km/h means driving 14 meters blind, making you four times more likely to crash.
The episode begins with a public service announcement about distracted driving, warning that glancing at a phone for one second at 50 km/h means driving 14 meters blind. This is followed by advertisements for Return.ie and GhostBed mattresses. The main segment features a call from Ena, a 57-year-old woman in her second marriage to a 67-year-old man with six children from his first marriage. Ena has two adult children from her previous marriage. She explains that her husband's youngest daughter, age 26, nearly drowned as a baby and has since been treated as the 'special chosen child' and favorite. Ena initially felt sympathy but now struggles with the stepdaughter's emotional regulation issues, such as temper tantrums during family outings where she accuses them of not giving enough attention. After 12 years together and 9 years married, Ena has decided she no longer wants to be around the stepdaughter due to the unpredictability and discomfort. The host responds decisively, stating that Ena's husband will never sacrifice his daughter for her and that Ena is low in his priorities compared to his children. The host advises that if the husband invites the stepdaughter to move back in, Ena should leave. For holidays and gatherings, the host suggests avoiding one-on-one situations with the stepdaughter and recommends the husband take her out alone instead. Ena acknowledges the advice and thanks the host. The episode concludes with promotional content for The Testaments series on Disney+, apprenticeship opportunities with BusAaron and Dublin Bus, and a call to rate the podcast.
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