Calm Parenting Podcast · Kirk Martin
When PDA Kids Resist | What My Son Taught Me About Anxiety #563
February 15, 2026·18 min·1 clip
Kirk Martin shares how he masked his PDA for decades, lying to bosses and skipping graduations.
As heard by us
A steep hike becomes a clear case for reading quiet as effort.
A steep hike with ropes, chains, and drop-offs gives the episode a grounded setting for a practical lesson about PDA, anxiety, and how a child can look shut down while still doing real work inside.
Why you'd press play
When your kid goes silent, this gives you a steadier read than your own panic.
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