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416 — Theo Fleury: Legendary Athlete, Courageous Survivor (Re-Run)

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Theo Fleury says a coach raped him 150 times over two and a half years after he left home at 15.

1. BS Free MD with Drs. May and Tim Hindmarsh centers this episode on Theo Fleury, the Calgary Flames star and author of 'Playing With Fire.' 2. Drs. May and Tim Hindmarsh interview Fleury as a Stanley Cup champion and Olympic gold medalist whose life story extends beyond hockey. 3. The episode asks what happens when elite sports, childhood trauma, addiction, and recovery collide in one life. 4. May recalls May 25, 1989, at 14 Harrington Place in Saskatoon, Saskatchewan, when she watched Game 6 of the Stanley Cup Final and the Flames won. 5. Fleury says he was 20 years old during the 1989 Flames run and remembers Don Cherry interviewing him after the game. 6. Fleury says he grew up in chaos, drama, and violence because both parents had childhood trauma that became addiction. 7. He says the rink became his 'happy place' and taught him team, respect, caring for teammates, and consequences. 8. May compares hockey culture with the camaraderie she saw in Flin Flon, Manitoba, and says the team bond looked like a discipline system. 9. Fleury says parents should use sports to build 'quality human beings,' not professional athletes. 10. He says there are only 800 NHL jobs, while millions of kids worldwide compete for a tiny number of places. 11. Fleury says he left home at 15 with a coach who promised him a one-way ticket to the NHL. 12. He says that coach raped him 150 times over two and a half years in Winnipeg and Moose Jaw. 13. Fleury says alcohol became his coping mechanism and that he later became 'pretty much an instant alcoholic.' 14. He says he was in a new relationship, drunk, and punching holes in a wall before praying in the washroom for God to remove the obsession to drink and do drugs. 15. Fleury says he woke up the next morning and told Jen, 'it's over,' and he says he has been sober since September 18, 2005. 16. He says Malcolm Gladwell's 'Outliers' helped him understand that 10,000 hours of practice made hockey feel automatic and instinctive. 17. Fleury says his brain chemistry felt 'absolutely perfect' on the ice because repetition and unconscious memory took over. 18. The tone moves from sports nostalgia to trauma disclosure, recovery, and direct debate about COVID, mental health, and media messaging. 19. Listeners interested in hockey, addiction recovery, and trauma work. 20. Skip it if you want only light sports talk or no political commentary.

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Theo Fleury's story is framed as a hard-edged, redemptive conversation about abuse, healing, and hockey.

Drs. May and Tim Heinmarsch speak with Theo Fleury, and the talk reaches far beyond Calgary Flames fandom. It moves from hockey into Playing With Fire and then into abuse, survival, hope, healing, and recovery.

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You're here for Theo Fleury's survival story, not just the Stanley Cup and Olympic gold.

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