Beyond the Type: An Enneagram-Inspired Podcast about Being Human. · Sandy Swanson, PCC, NBC-HWC, A-CFHC, Holistic Communication and Relationship Coach

Why You React the Way You Do: Understanding the Enneagram Passions

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Sandy opens warmly and frames the passions as a way to understand why people react the way they do. She traces the language to the seven deadly sins, explains how Enneagram teachers added fear and self-deceit to complete the nine types, and keeps bringing the idea back to the system's three centers of intelligence. The teaching stays grounded. Again and again, she translates the passions into body language, daily habits, and the moment when autopilot starts taking over. Type nine's sloth gets the first close look. Here it means avoiding the big stuff, choosing what feels easy, and keeping the peace even when an important conversation or a bill needs attention. The advice is straightforward: notice when you are sidestepping what actually matters. Type one's anger follows. It is not loud rage so much as an inner sense that something is off, which can tighten the shoulders, jaw, and lips while irritation builds. She slows that down into a practice: let the body soften and notice the pressure before it hardens into rigidity. Then she turns to type two's pride. Pride is presented not as peacocking, but as a subtle habit of self-focus that can sit underneath helpfulness. The episode keeps a steady tone. It feels like coaching, with a question, a scene, and then a nudge toward awareness rather than a lecture from a distance. The repetition is part of the style. That can feel a little circular at times, but it also reinforces the central move of the episode: notice, pause, and choose. By the end, the listener is left with a simple test. When discomfort or reactivity shows up, ask which passion is taking over and whether there is a more intentional response available.

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A practical Enneagram introduction that turns abstract ideas into bodily cues and everyday patterns.

Sandy's episode gives a patient tour of the Enneagram passions and makes a dense inherited vocabulary easier to notice in the body, especially in the jaw, shoulders, and lips.

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Notice what your body does before autopilot takes over.

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